Regarding the worldy life an important part of our
dreams/ plans, the possibilities that we have,
probabilities and the coincidences live in our data
base and they become like any part of us which cannot
be taken away.
In our own terms, we try
to take the necessary precautions in our data base for
the new possibilites and the unexpected events.
In this dimension we
can find the basic, healthy and strong information that
can guide us about the precautions to be taken.
For example, we believe
that our values should be in harmony with the universal
values. In our relations we take new risks and try not
to leave any place to coincidences. We make the
necessary calculations in our minds and interfere
In short, we can say that
our data base gives us important clues about our daily
life and about the future. Perhaps, it would be a
mistake to accept these as constant and unchanging, but
the actions that are being faced and repeated seems to
approve what is being said.
The things that are not
going to change are ‘’the meanings, the thoughts in
relation with the reality’’, while the source of the
new possibilites are the new values that we have added
to our world of thoughts.
is rolling into the past very fast and the future keeps
on being uncertain.
Regarding the past we have memories which never get
lost. No matter how far we want to look in the
dimension of time, we cannot do without these memories
and keep on searching for them all the time.
During the conversations
among friends, those who do not have any talents to
display, talk about the past and try to be significant
and show their conditions.
We can define this
attitude as ‘’living
within narrow limits/boundaries’.
I have never become
jealous of the people who have lots of memories. The
problem of my age did not cause me to go back to the
past. However, it would be correct if I say that I did
not have the necessary power to arrange these memories
and present them to the people.
However, no matter what
you say time knows very well how to change into memories
the things that are being experienced.
Most often, the memories
are mentioned in the funerals, in the gardens of the
mosques by the side of the deceased person. Most of
the time you can’t help telling an anecdote about the
dead person and you finish (speaking about) the things
that have been experienced together by the statement ‘’May
Allah have mercy over him/her.’’
Also, speaking about the
memories of your military service is found suitable at
the right time, but if they last too long they become
Another memory file that I
have to add is about the sports competitions.
The eternal rivals, in
order to make the one another furious, remember the
memories of old games immediately and start reminding
The individuals who can
remain smiling, optimistic and who can remain forever
young are being remembered often. This means that such
events/individuals are always kept in the memories of
the people. (they are not forgotten).
These people make us open
an extraordinary/magnificent window in our lives with
their state of being.
In actual fact, the
situation is not so hopeless.
The best thing to do would
be not to get carried away by the lethargy of the
events and to place them in our data base in an
This is in our hands.
So long as the said
dimension does not force us to choose a life which is
compulsory (which is chosen by force), because in such a
case the ones who live with tight bonds to their data
base are falling.
May you be entrusted to
Allah and remain with love.